If you are now on this page, then you are completely fucked. Sorry for expressing myself so harshly, I just often come across such a situation when I’m fed up with everything. And the topic of this article: What to do when you're tired of everything? What does it mean: tired of everything? I'm tired of work, I'm tired of my girlfriend or boyfriend, I'm tired of my family, I'm tired of my neighbors, I'm tired of my life, I'm tired of myself, and let it all go to hell. At such moments in life, depression and a desire to get out of the current situation arise. Well, you've come to the right address. I will tell you some techniques that will help you get out of this shit.

I'm tired of all!!! Why is this happening?

To begin with, I want you to realize that all people face this problem when they get bored with everything. And it doesn’t matter what profession they are engaged in. If a person constantly experiences a deficiency in something and lives the same way, then life becomes grayer than grey. An example would be a librarian who only reads. His life is one-sided and low-key. Deficiency is present in all areas of life. Life also loses color from an oversaturation of all sorts of events. For example, show business stars are constantly oversaturated with what is happening. Many stars have gone out due to fatigue, oversaturation of money, lack of time and lack of peace.

To prevent this from happening, there must be harmony in life. Deficiency and glut are always bad. This tires a person and makes him angry. For example, many guys get bored with their girls. Why is this happening? What is not clear here? If a guy spends his time with the same girl every day, how can it not get boring? After all, oversaturation occurs, and oversaturation leads to boredom.

At first I had fun driving the car, but then, when I started doing it every day, all the drive was lost. Sometimes I use public transport, just to avoid driving on roads that bore me.

Now about the deficit. Many people lack new emotions and impressions in life. Everything becomes ordinary and familiar so quickly that the impressions fade. I'll give you an example again. Have you heard Dima Bilan's new song - "The impossible is possible". You liked it and listened to this song all week. And if you didn’t listen, then it was spinning in your head automatically. So, over time, this song ceases to give you pleasure, the emotions from this song are no longer what they were before. In this case, there is an oversaturation of this song, as a result of which it ceases to please you. The song becomes a routine, and routine is a lack of new emotions.

It turns out this pattern: at first a person begins to do something with pleasure, does it actively, then this activity becomes boring, ceases to bring new emotions, the person becomes bored, and he begins to engage in this activity less and less often because he is tired. I quit karate and fighting without rules, because I was tired of this business. I stopped training for ten whole years, after which I realized that I needed to move on.

It's not your fault that you're tired of life. We are all built this way. And there are only two options left: either sit and whine further, or come up with or find something new. If you choose the first option, then close this page, this article is not for you. If you still decide to get rid of this boredom, then read the article further.

What to do if you're tired of everything?

In fact, I have already answered this question in the articles: and. After all, if you are tired of everything, it means that you either don’t want to do anything, or you have become bored with life. Oversaturation and shortage lead to exactly these consequences.

I’ll say right away that you will have to act, and not sit idly by. You need to hunt for new emotions like a game hunter. For this you will even have to. Fear is also an emotion, and in some way it colors life. You will find many answers in the articles: and.

Well, if you are bored with your life because of the monotony, then you will have to start doing something new that will refresh you. Since I rarely suffer from an oversupply of anything, I mostly struggle with a deficiency of something. Usually there is a lack of fresh emotions. Here you have to invent and invent. This process will last a lifetime. No matter what you come up with new, you will still get tired of it, and you will have to come up with something new again. So roll up your sleeves and start taking your first steps.

When I was damn bored with life, I took up theater. When theater came into my life, my life was transformed with new colors. I remember experiencing a lot of positive emotions, experiencing many new events - exactly what I needed then. I never got tired of the theater, because it was always fun there.

When we staged the play, at first the rehearsals were interesting. It was interesting to rehearse scenes, improvise, and sometimes play the fool. But then rehearsals turn into a nightmare. Rehearsing the same scenes gets terribly boring, people get boring, the scene makes you sick, and you don’t want to know the character you’re playing anymore. Well, in general, you understand me. Word "rehearsal" comes from the word repeat, which means "repeat". Something that is repeated many times becomes boring.

Isn't that how people live? Most people live for Groundhog Day. Every day the same thing. And as a result: people become bored with life. So to prevent this from happening, you need to take control of your life and come up with or find something new that will please you.

Then I started dancing. Eh, I'm still doing them. My soul rejoices after class. But it still gets more boring. That's why I decided to start learning English. I attend two schools and I find it fun and interesting in both. Again, my emotional battery is recharged by new hobbies. Now I’m planning to leave for Moscow, since my city is already sick of me. I walked around my city up and down several hundred times. Tired of it. I want fresh food.

So what conclusion did you draw after reading this article? If you are tired of something, find or come up with something new. And it doesn’t matter whether you are scared or not. I myself am constantly afraid to do anything, but I overcome my fear because I understand that life begins outside my comfort zone.

People are marking time because they are afraid to take a new step towards the unknown. It's so scary!!! Everything unknown scares us; it’s much easier to walk along the beaten path. But the beaten path is too boring. It is freshness or novelty that will illuminate your life and give new emotions. Therefore, stop sitting in the usual swamp, find a new one.

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What to do if you're tired of everything

People live: they conquer professional Olympus, travel around the world, discover the depths of the oceans, space, and the secrets of consciousness. They get married, raise children, in the end. This one cooks deliciously, this one helps the hopelessly ill, and their faces are happy and bright. I turned on the TV, opened photos on social networks - everyone was happy. What to do if you're tired of everything? Actually everything. And it seems like you want to live an interesting, eventful life. It seems boring to procrastinate until payday, vacation, Friday disinfection of the soul... here we all get settled.

Only it’s all “SOUNDLY”, but in life, when everything gets boring, the day is suffocated by complete hopelessness. Dusk. And no amount of advice from a friend, an appointment with a psychologist, a funny movie or a liter of vodka can help bring back joy. At best, you get a temporary effect that you regret the next morning. You make yourself another promise that no more. And from the very core there is a hoarse cry: how tired of everything, when will it all end!

Well, it’s time to turn to Yuri Burlan’s “System-Vector Psychology” training for help - its effectiveness is amazing with results, it’s worth taking advantage of.

The problem is ignorance of the device

Man is built on the principle of pleasure. I want it and I get it. If I don’t get it, I put in more effort. When I achieve my goal, I rejoice, happiness blazes inside. This is the reward for the efforts made - a good state of mind, good mood. But it happens that a person fights like a fish against ice, but nothing works out for him. It seems to carry out actions LIKE EVERYONE in order to get what they want, but it doesn’t coalesce. And then we get angry, offended, and lose our temper. Then you don’t want anything. A logical thing emerges: what to do if you’re tired of everything? Did you want YOURS, or rather, did you want THIS?

So, our desires and properties (psyche) are divided into eight groups. They are called vectors. To put it simply, people are all different from the inside. But a similar problem can hit everyone: engineer Oleg Petrovich, accountant Yulia, janitor Vasily and the impudent neighbor Semyonovna. And everyone will ask: what to do when you’re tired of everything, which doors to knock on, which gun to use and where to shoot? Thanks to the training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan, we understand: you need to shoot at the bull’s eye - to reveal the essence of yourself! The goal is to decipher and follow in accordance with your own psyche...

If you're tired of everything: we look for answers within ourselves

Each of us has our own unique desires and properties given by nature. When we follow nature's lead and fulfill OUR desires, we live a happy life. So why are there so many people who are bored out of their minds with everything? Because from childhood we pick up false beliefs, principles, goals that are not characteristic of our psyche. As we grow up, we gain negative experiences. This is the main reason when you are tired of everything! We are not carrying our own cross, dear ones. Stranger. This forces us to get tired of the loads, which for some are small and ridiculous.

Let's take care of it his business, filling your own desires - fatigue will not arise. You won’t want to go home from work - you’re not tired of it! For example, remember our famous artists, directors, and musicians. They don't take vacations. After all, it is a pleasure to do what you love.

When everything gets boring: what needs to be changed?

Answer: nothing in itself. You just need to get to know yourself and finally return to the roots of your soul and heart.

First, let’s get acquainted with the most logical, rational and able to adapt to any living conditions cutaneous vector. A lover of change, discipline, an achiever and an athlete, he simply languishes from monotonous sedentary work. His ambitions require high status and earnings. This is who will like to get hold of the deficit and organize the team into a group. Good manager. This is an engineer who saves time, space and energy for people. Military.

At the same time, it is precisely these people who may be overtaken by a scenario of failure, laid down in childhood by not very successful upbringing actions. During the training, Yuri Burlan helps to deeply work through our unconscious complexes and anchors, and such a problem goes into oblivion. A person wants to live again and achieve his goals, be it buying a new car or traveling to warm countries in winter. Building a tram or skydiving. How tired of everything there is - life is so exciting!

The next person who becomes not himself if natural desires are not filled is a representative of the famous anal vector. This is the one who will tirelessly find fault, eat the brains of his family, mutter with or without reason, blaming everyone around for the troubles. But by nature these are the best husbands and wives. Family for them is the most important thing in life. They are patient and honest. Cleanliness and order are the key to well-being and good mood. However, if implemented insufficiently, they may place excessive emphasis on endless cleaning. A woman can literally shake from trampling dirt around her apartment. She is very patient, but the chaos created by her family one day blows her up too. Tired of it!

What career path is best for them to follow? Where perfectionism, tolerance and order are needed most. They will get tired of speed and change. These are the same people who sit in one place for forty years and are happy with honor and respect. When they say “golden hands”, this is also about a person with an anal vector. A locksmith, jeweler, neurosurgeon is a top-class professional. They have systems thinking - they are excellent analysts and archivists. Teachers, doctors, mentors. What to do when a housewife is tired of everything? Take up embroidery, keep your hands busy!

What if everyone is so tired of hating the world?! Tired of any sounds, people around, even close ones, family... Every movement causes pain. And what she is like inside is beyond words. This is a failure - a black, bottomless vacuum. You have been looking for answers to questions for an impossibly long time - your whole life. And I couldn’t find it... Despair set in - why live, everything is meaningless, stupid, about nothing... What kind of work, what kind of family, what money?! It’s all so base and vulgar... This is how the lack of sound expressed by depression expresses itself. People with sound vector they do not have material requests - there are requests of the soul.

And what to do if everything is boring, in the case of people with a sound vector? There can be only one piece of advice: urgently go to the training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan. The fact is that representatives of the sound vector are extremely rare people with abstract intelligence. Once upon a time philosophers, astrologers and always mathematicians, physicists, programmers - they are trying to fill themselves with knowledge of the meaning of life. Their greatest desire is to know the First Cause, the essence of the essence. To get to the bottom of metaphysical depths and realize the meaning of life.

Introverts, they are closed in on themselves, looking for answers in the depths of their souls. And, of course, they don’t find it. Nature dictates that they go out to people. Focusing only on oneself is the main mistake of their bad states. Being alone means slipping into insomnia, depression, and suicidal thoughts. During the training, you gain the ability to disassemble people’s psyches “into their component parts,” incorporate them into oneself, and ultimately, finally, restore the joy of being. Find the meaning of the Divine and your presence on earth.

As a conclusion: when a person knows what he consists of (cellular composition), then it is possible to identify the missing minerals, vitamins, and fluids. Competent doctors, with the help of medications and nutritional supplements, do an excellent job of this. This is how the body is treated. It is also possible to cure the soul, our psyche. First you need to know the desires and properties that make it up, there are 36 of them in each vector. Knowledge of the psyche decides everything!

And to the question, what to do when you're tired of everything, you yourself realize the answer: to fulfill your desires by using your properties correctly. That's all.

“... During the learning process, my consciousness began to clear up. The emotional state began to change. I came out of this state of vacuum, from the state of nothing, from not wanting anything. There are no more thoughts - I’m tired, I’m tired of everything, I don’t want anything. I don't let myself get stuck in my thoughts. I introduce the principle: “If you’ve done the job, think boldly!”

Some kind of sobriety of thinking appeared. The tension, the feeling of powerlessness and emptiness are gone. There is no more this causeless anger and irritation. I was terribly afraid of life, the future, and it seems that this fear is receding. It was as if I had come out of a long coma. It became easier to climb.

Probably everyone has experienced emotional emptiness at least once in their life, when everything falls out of hand and negative thoughts arise. The publication will tell you what to do if you are tired of life, what recommendations psychologists give in such cases, and why such a condition arises in general.

Symptoms of depression

The following signs indicate that you are tired of life:

Negative emotions (irritability, melancholy, fear) or complete indifference to everything predominate.
There is no point in any actions.
Constant boredom.
The world is seen in shades of grey.
It is difficult to concentrate, concentrate and think about something.
Favorite activities and hobbies are not pleasing.
There is no desire to communicate with people.
There is no interest in intimacy.
Physical weakness and discomfort in the body.
Fatigue, drowsiness, insomnia or poor sleep with nightmares.
Reluctance to get out of bed in the morning.
The emergence of thoughts of suicide.

If several points occur, then we can talk about a state of apathy. If most of the points are present, and they have been observed for more than two weeks, then this is real depression, which can develop into a prolonged one.

What are the consequences of ignoring life fatigue?

If nothing is done, then in advanced cases, the usual condition, when you are tired of problems and life, can develop into a neurotic disorder or a disease associated with psychosomatics. If you are depressed for a very long time, depression begins, which in some cases leads to suicide. This does not mean that any emotionally devastated soul is doomed to destruction. At best, there will simply be suicidal tendencies that do not lead to a desire to die. An apathetic state causes a lot of inconvenience and greatly spoils a full-fledged life. Because of it, it is impossible to work normally, communicate, do usual things, favorite hobbies and simply be happy. To bring pleasure back to life, you need to fight depression. First you need to understand why life gets boring. Only by identifying the cause can the problem be solved.

As a rule, one of four reasons leads to fatigue from life. In rare cases - all together. They are as follows:

Stress. Is the most common source of this negative feeling. When faced with a stressful situation, a person usually feels depressed and helpless, as if he were being pulled in different directions. In such cases, psychologists advise trying to get rid of the source of worries and add variety to life.

"Black line". Sometimes there are moments in life when one misfortune comes after another. Then it begins to seem that no methods work anymore, no matter how hard you try. This may contribute to the loss of hope for improvement. Because of this, there is a feeling of fatigue from existence. As experts say, you just need to survive such moments, endure them. If possible, you should try to solve problems that arise and please yourself with something.

Unfulfilled hopes and expectations. Probably everyone wants to become someone, do something or receive something. Over time, the understanding comes that it is impossible to achieve your goal and everything does not go as in your dreams. For example, you can’t start your own business, you don’t like your current job, you’re tired of family life. If something doesn’t suit you, psychologists recommend starting to change it or adjust your view of these things.

Depression. This condition usually occurs due to excessively strong experiences. For example, divorce, unexpected job loss, death of a loved one, domestic violence, serious illness. Usually you cannot cope with depression on your own, so at the first sign of it you should immediately contact a competent specialist.

Once the cause has been identified, you need to start eliminating it. Recommendations from psychologists and life advice from ordinary people can help with this. This will be discussed further.

Get rid of sources of stress

Work, self-realization, relationships with family, friends and partners are the areas that most often lead to stress. It is better to eliminate these sources of negative emotions immediately. It is clear that it is unlikely that you will be able to say goodbye to them completely, but you can reduce the negativity.

It's not easy to decide to change, but it's necessary. They form character, strengthen and develop. “I'm tired of life! What to do?" - clients ask psychologists. Experts recommend taking the situation into your own hands and starting to change it.

If you don't like your job, you need to find another one. It may bring in less money, but your nerves will remain intact. Does your husband beat you? It’s better to leave him than to endure such an attitude. Don't have the courage to move away from your parents? But if you do this, you won’t have to constantly endure humiliation from them and comparisons with older children. Situations may vary. The main thing is to start doing something and change your life.

Change the scenery

Almost all people are tired of monotonous life. Everything is already familiar and known, so it begins to seem that nothing new will happen. There will be no prospects and the future will not get better. This is where personal dissatisfaction with life arises. In such cases, psychologists recommend changing the environment in order to relax, get new impressions and recharge with positive emotions. This is very good advice. By following it, you can significantly improve your mood.

If you can take a break from work, you can go on a trip. But time should not be spent within the hotel walls. A great idea would be to visit natural beauty (deserts, mountains, steppes, jungles), castles, palaces or unique national holidays (Venice Carnival, German Oktoberfest, Hindu Holi - the festival of colors) with an experienced guide.

If you don’t have extra finances, you don’t have to go on an expensive trip. You can visit local history and art museums, antique souvenir shops, national gardens, and parks within the city. Yes, it’s elementary - go to the beach, to the cinema, swimming pool, bowling alley and other entertainment venues. The main thing is to visit a new place.

Change your daily routine

If you are tired of everything, you simply need to change your life. The vicious circle “work - home” does not bode well. Even if you really like your profession and everything is fine in your family, it is still advisable to periodically change your activities. You can try using the day differently. First you should start a diary. Every day you need to write down all your actions and the time when they start and end. Psychologists recommend keeping a diary for at least a week. This way you can more effectively analyze how much time is spent on what. After this, you need to ask yourself some important questions. What changes would you like to make to your day? Which actions are effective and which are not? What takes too much time, and what can you avoid altogether? Depending on the answers, you need to change your routine.

For example, you can change your sleep schedule to take into account biorhythms, determine the most convenient time for meals, plan purchases in advance, watch less TV and surf the Internet so that you can do other things. The day will become more varied if you set aside hours or a few minutes for regular walks, visiting clubs, museums or entertainment venues. It is useful to set aside half an hour every day that will be spent exclusively on yourself. It may be advisable to reconsider the way you travel and get to work not by car or bus, but by bicycle or on foot. This is useful and in some cases much faster.

That is, in order to avoid the thought that you are tired of your dull life, you need to get rid of the routine, reduce the negativity and add more effective rest to your routine. If several points are incompatible with working hours, it is quite possible to find a compromise. If you can’t organize even half of the planned changes, then this is a serious reason to think about changing jobs. Do we work to live or live to work?

Give up the Internet and mobile phone

Sometimes, even for a day, it is enough not to use these achievements of civilization to come to your senses and forget that everything is boring. How to bring yourself back to life? Psychologists give a basic recommendation: turn off your phone and do not go on the Internet (various social networks, do not read email, and so on). This is especially useful if friends and relatives constantly pester you with their negativity or start communicating if they want to boast about some kind of joy and demonstrate how well their life is going. In order not to upset yourself again, it is enough to avoid such unpleasant dialogues.

This is especially true for social networks, where you start looking at photos of happy and successful people and compare them with your seemingly worthless life. If such a pastime upsets you, then it is better to abandon it altogether.

Volunteer

Starting to help others is a great idea when you need to find some meaning if life is boring. You can become a volunteer in a boarding school for the elderly, an orphanage, an animal shelter, and so on. Some people recommend helping their relatives and friends in some matters. People will be grateful and remember responsiveness, not social status. When you do such good deeds, you immediately want to live. You understand that everything is not in vain, and you feel your importance.

Find your favorite thing

If you are tired of being, it means there is no work you adore, because of which you would like to live. Therefore, you need to find your purpose, your favorite thing. Those who have it do not have negative thoughts, psychological and physical problems. If you have an entrepreneurial spirit, then you need to try and experiment. Then there will be not only money, but also success, happiness, meaning in life and the opportunity to give happiness to others.

Find hobbies and passions

You urgently need to introduce variety if you are tired of life. What to do to avoid negative thoughts? To do this, you need to do something so that you don’t have time for stupid things. It can be any hobby. If you don’t have a favorite hobby yet, then this is a great opportunity to try yourself in various industries. Drawing, embroidery, clay modeling, wood carving, hunting, fishing - anything, as long as it is interesting and enjoyable. Statistics show that people who have hobbies suffer least from depression.

Get a pet

Who, if not the smaller brothers, are able to lift a person’s spirits and constantly make him happy? Pets really prolong life and fill it with meaning, so you will never get tired of it. It’s more pleasant to return home when you know that they are waiting for you there. But it is worth taking a responsible approach to such an important decision and choice of animal. Some pets will definitely bring joy, while others will only cause trouble. Therefore, it is important to study in detail all the information about the breed before getting one.

Birds, fish, turtles and other animals that can calm the nervous system can become pets. But practice shows that the happiest people are those who take a dog or cat into their home. And some people have both for complete harmony. These furry animals charge a person with energy, health, make him more active, confident, sociable, responsible, independent and optimistic.

It is important to think a hundred times before getting a pet. This is a very important decision! Buying an animal can bring not only positive emotions, but also a lot of hassle.

Contact a psychologist

If nothing has worked out for a long time, and you are tired of absolutely everything in life, then this is a reason to go for a consultation with a psychologist. It will help you look at things differently and find ways out of the current situation. You especially shouldn’t hesitate if you have all the signs of depression. If it is prolonged, it is much more difficult to get out of it. If left unattended, it can lead to suicide.

Results

If you are tired of life, then this is not a reason to despair. There are many ways to cheer up and get your nerves in order. The main thing is to be active and start changing your life today!

Everyone, at least once in their life, has experienced a state when they are tired of everything and don’t want to do anything. Thoughts come that everything has lost its meaning, and sometimes that it never made sense. However, this condition is subjective and not forever.

Why do you feel like “everything is boring” and “everything is annoying”?

The state when you are already tired, but have not yet woken up, when you can barely force yourself to move, at work - useless shuffling of papers, in your head - dead-end thoughts, is familiar to everyone. A vicious circle without a hint of happiness. Such a problem can befall a businessman, a housewife, or an unrecognized genius, because the reason for the state of being tired of everything and not wanting anything is the same for everyone.

The problem is that the desire to achieve more in life occurs when a person is aware of his natural desires. False attitudes, bad experiences, and other people’s life guidelines lead you away from your own path. And it turns out that I once wanted something, but it didn’t work out, my hands gave up. I don’t need anything anymore, I’m tired of everything, and it’s not clear what to do. In such situations, a person thinks: “I’m so sick of everything.”

The human psyche is endowed with unconscious desires. They force you to strain and receive the pleasure prepared by nature. If desires come true, then the person is energetic, experiences joy and satisfaction, and is ready for new achievements. Filled desire doubles. What if everything went wrong? A person feels pain, loss of strength and that life is enough.

Harbingers of bad mood and apathy

There are various reasons that provoke a feeling of depression in human souls.

Seasonal blues

There are factors that can influence the moral well-being of not only an individual, but also society. They relate to weather and climatic conditions. Seasonal blues can be caused by:

prolonged cold winter;
rainy autumn;
spring vitamin deficiency;
sweltering summer heat.

A person cannot help but react to natural changes, no matter how good everything is around him. In this case, it is worth emphasizing the fact that all the troubles that exist are happening outside the window. And the house is light and cozy. By thinking in this way, even in the most disgusting and gloomy weather, you can maintain optimism and an adequate mood. It is recommended to focus on all the good things that happen at home. You can change the scenery, rearrange the furniture, add light (don’t draw the curtains, don’t lower the blinds), decorate the interior.

Conflicts at school or work

There are no perfect teams, so conflicts at work or school are extremely common.

Correct behavior in the workplace does not guarantee the absence of conflicts. In such situations, you should not lose composure, turn on humor and minimize contact with the enemy.

Feeling of own purposelessness

The lack of goals in life leads to the question of what to do if you are tired of living. The reason for the feeling of a purposeless existence may be a lack of courage to take responsibility for one’s own life, low self-esteem, or fear of defeat.

To stop aimless existence, you need to try to imagine that all its important components are gradually disappearing from life: family, work, rest. Then imagine that you are the happy owner of a fairy wand, which will allow you to return everything back, but only one by one. The return sequence is important. What a person returns first is most important today. This is the area in which the goals lie.

Option 1. Quit your job, rent out your apartment and fly to the sea to fool around. Howl with boredom after a couple of months, return and painfully look for work.

Option 2. Avoid sudden movements, sit down and figure out the real reasons for your condition. And then regain the joy of life without being left without pants and family.
We will figure out what to do if we are tired of everything systematically - with the help of the knowledge of the training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan.

When everything gets boring

This condition does not arise suddenly, it accumulates: work begins to bother you, misunderstanding grows in the family - and now any everyday little things infuriate you. As a result, an emotional explosion: “how tired of everything, how boring life is!” or apathetic: “I don’t want anything, leave me alone.”

And the biggest complaints are usually made about work, family, and loved ones.

If you are completely tired of everything, then it is useless to look for someone to blame for your troubles - it will not help. The reason is your inner desires and their fulfillment. We will deal with them in more detail.

I'm tired of work, but I don't understand what I want

At first I liked the work, but over time it became routine and uninteresting, or the management changed, and everything became wrong. Or there is simply nowhere to grow, there are no new projects and peaks that one would like to conquer.

When you lose interest in work, you develop a bad mood and complaints about others, even those people for whose well-being you go there. So the work can be anything, but it should bring joy, and not just a good salary.

It is important to understand the properties of your character. Then you can decide what kind of activity you like so that you can enjoy every day and not get tired. And by understanding the character of those around you, you will be able to build conflict-free relationships with colleagues and management without changing jobs.

The training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan explains what properties and desires the human psyche consists of and what the behavior model of any person depends on, helps to understand what the soul truly lies in, and what was imposed or contrived.

I want one thing, but I get another

The psyche consists of desires given from birth. They are called vectors and are responsible for what character a person will have. Everyone has their own desires: one has dreamed of space or invention since childhood, while the other dreams of becoming a doctor or teacher.

Not all children's dreams are liked by parents, so in the process of upbringing, goals in life are adjusted by family and other people around them, and a compromise is not always achieved. That’s why work often doesn’t cause any burning interest: it’s just the way it is – to work, and you also need to feed your family.

The important thing is that the desires of the psyche are always supported by the properties for their implementation. Anyone who has dreamed of becoming a teacher or archaeologist since childhood naturally has an excellent memory and attention to detail. And the one who cannot live a day without dancing has a flexible body and the desire to be the first. Maybe the work is boring precisely because the properties given to you by nature are not realized there.

When the properties of the psyche do not find application in life, when desires are postponed until later and are systematically not fulfilled, then the feeling of internal discomfort goes off scale. The feeling that everything is boring and everyone around is cretins becomes stable. It's like having a huge amount of money on hand, but not being able to spend it.

Tired of people, especially close ones

Everyone wants to live in pleasure - this is the natural state of affairs. Therefore, we strive to use other people, especially close ones, for our own purposes. But it doesn't always work out. To be able to negotiate, and not to conflict, means to understand how the other lives and breathes.

For one, it is important that his things always stand where he left them. And therefore, complaints are inevitable against those who rearranged the slippers or put things in order in his closet. And for another, the most important thing is to hear words of admiration and love. And when emotions in a relationship weaken, this is already a reason for flirting with someone else, or at least for a hysterical “you don’t love me!”
System-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan describes the properties of each vector: how a person behaves and why he cannot do otherwise. And most importantly, an understanding comes of how exactly relationships with any people are built, so that both parties receive joy from communication, and do not gnaw at each other.

So that the relationship does not get boring after a few years, but lasts for many years, you need to understand your loved one. It’s only easy and carefree at first, while attraction controls the process. But then a routine begins, various communication problems emerge, and a desire to break up may arise.

The path to correcting the situation: where to start

The main advice is not to do anything drastic. You will always have time to send your boss and colleagues, but patching holes in the budget, listening to the complaints of loved ones whose well-being depends on you, is a very unpleasant task. Also important is not only a financial safety net, but also your internal willingness to change something: the job itself, relationships with management or colleagues, or family relationships.

The training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan gives confidence in one’s own abilities. Understanding yourself and others is already more than half of the solution to the problem. When you recognize the traits and properties of a person’s psyche, your behavior towards him changes automatically: instead of irritation, an involuntary smile appears.

And finding an activity that arouses inexhaustible interest is the key to not only a successful career, but a way to receive incomparable pleasure from realizing your own natural properties. After all, when desires are successfully fulfilled, you want more and more - the very volume of desires increases.