What a strong and wonderful feeling - love. It inspires us, makes us suffer and worry. Here I am, I just can’t find a place for myself after a quarrel with you. I am so ashamed in front of you, my love, for my words, but believe me, all this was not out of malice, emotions just played out. I know that I offended you, and therefore, I apologize. Please forgive me, my dear, unique and only one. Let's make peace and forget our quarrel like a worst dream. I love you, my dear, and I want to always be only with you.
Living life is not a field to cross. And that's absolutely true. Everything in life cannot always be smooth, it just doesn’t happen. So you and I, my love, are now in a quarrel, but I am sure that very soon we will definitely make peace. I just can't stand this separation anymore. Please forgive me for offending you. I promise that this will never happen again, because all mistakes can be corrected if you really want to. And I really want this. Don’t be angry with me anymore, because I love you more than life itself. You are my best, dearest.
The word is not a sparrow; if it flies out, you can’t catch it. So, quite by accident, such offensive words came out to you. Forgive me, please, I realize that I told you nonsense, but it was not at all out of malice. I love you more than life itself. You are my light in the window, my ideal, my dream. You are simply the best guy on earth. Let's make peace, my kitten, and forget this misunderstanding forever. May our boat of love sail calmly in the sea of happiness, may the fair wind of good luck always blow to it.
Love makes the world bright and colorful. But separation is quite the opposite – gray and dull. So for me now everything is in shades of gray, everything seems so dull, because you are not nearby, my beloved. I can no longer live with you in separation, and therefore, I ask you, my beloved, forgive me and come back. Let's enjoy the nectar of love again, let's try to bring back our tender feelings again. After all, it’s so hard for us to live without each other. Let this terrible dream end soon, and we wake up in a beautiful garden of love.
Darling, I feel such emptiness in my heart because I’m not with you. I know that I am the only one to blame for our quarrel. You have a patient, angelic character, and I took advantage of this and unfairly offended you. Forgive me, my kitten, don’t hold a grudge against me anymore. Let's make peace and be together again. Most of all in life I am afraid of losing you, my best boyfriend in the world. Let the rain wash away our quarrel, let the wind disperse the dark clouds of separation, let our love withstand any test.
Love makes people happy, but separation from a loved one makes us the most unhappy. So now I consider myself the unluckiest person in the world, because you and I are in a quarrel, my dearest person. I suffer so much being apart from you, I miss you so much. Forgive me, please, that I undeservedly offended you. I promise this will never happen again. Let's keep our love and be together again. I so want to snuggle up to your strong shoulder, hear your ringing laugh, feel the tenderness of your kiss.
Darling, you are the kindest, the nicest, the most gentle, you are simply mine, I will never give you to anyone. Our little quarrel is like a small grain of sand compared to such a huge love like ours. Please forgive me for the hurtful words I said to you, don’t hold a grudge against me anymore. Let this little misunderstanding be the biggest test for our love. Let everything remain the same for us, because we love each other so much. I love you, my dear, and I want to be only with you.
My sweetest person in the world, I am incredibly lucky to have you. I always want to be close to you, although in our situation it is almost impossible, because we are in a quarrel. Darling, forgive me, please don’t hold a grudge against me anymore. Let's make peace, my only one. Forgive me for my thoughtless words. I promise to change. May our love live happily ever after. May all your dreams certainly come true. All the best to you, dear, good luck and family warmth. May our quarrel end quickly and everything return to its previous place.
Sometimes, just one word can hurt a person. So I, not at all out of malice, offended you, and now I simply cannot find a place for myself. Forgive me, please, my beloved. I'm so sad without you. Don't be angry with me anymore, my dear. This quarrel became a big lesson for me. Forgive me and believe that this will never happen again. I promise to change my obnoxious character in order to preserve our love with you. You are the kindest, the best, and you generally have the most angelic character.
For me, the whole world has become somehow gray and uninteresting, because you, my most important person on earth, are not nearby. There is only emptiness and despair in my soul. After all, I only have myself to blame for everything. Forgive me, please, my beloved. Let's make peace so we can be together again. After all, we felt so good. For me you are like light in a window, like a warm ray of sunshine, only with you I am the happiest. We are separated now, but I love you even more. Let's forget our quarrel like a bad dream.
There are different situations in life. Sometimes you feel so empty, so lonely, because you offended the person you love most. And, as it turns out later, completely undeservedly. Darling, please forgive me, it’s my fault for our quarrel. Believe me, I didn’t want this, it just all happened suddenly. Don't be angry with me anymore. After all, you know how much I love you. It’s so difficult for me now without you, life is all in shades of gray, there is no joy. I need you like air, I just live and breathe you.
It seems that life has simply stopped in place. Everything around is cold, there is no mood. Even sunny weather seems gray and cloudy. And all because you are not nearby, my kindest, most gentle, most beloved guy on earth. Forgive me, please, because I only have myself to blame for everything. I fully admit my mistake, and I promise from now on, first of all, to think before making unfounded accusations. I know I offended you greatly and I apologize. I love you, my beloved.
I'm sad and bored without you, my beloved. When you are not with me, everything seems gray and empty. We are now in a quarrel, and every day we are moving further and further away from each other. I am so afraid of losing our love, and therefore I ask you to apologize for my behavior. I understand that I offended you completely unreasonably. Forgive me, my beloved. Let's try to bring back our old love, because we had so much fun together. You are my best, my only, most desired in the world. Let our love be a talisman for the two of us.
We quarreled yesterday, and I already feel like the loneliest girl on the whole planet. This quarrel torments me so much, because I only have myself to blame for everything. I never thought that it would be so difficult for me without you. Forgive me, my beloved, for the offense I caused you. Let's make peace and be together again as before. I miss your smile, your lips, your ringing laughter so much. My love for you is growing stronger and stronger, forgive me for the offense caused. Let's try to bring everything back, because we were made for each other.
Every person on earth has experienced such a beautiful and strong feeling as love. She works wonders for us. It’s so good to have a reliable, kind, sweet, and most important person next to you. You feel protected, needed, and the happiest. I am so sad now because you are not next to me, my beloved. I ask you for forgiveness for all the offenses that I have caused you. Believe me, it all happened so suddenly, so thoughtlessly. Let's make peace, because we had such a good time together. Do not be offended by me. I love you my darling.
Today the sun is shining dullly, and the flowers are not pleasing with their beauty, it seems that all nature has become gray and dull. Nothing makes me happy, because you are not nearby, my dear. You and I quarreled over a trifle. I admit my guilt and ask for your forgiveness. Don't be offended by me, please. After all, you and I should be happy. Let our quarrel be the first and last test for love. For me, you are the most beloved, the nicest, the most important person on earth, my love for you grows stronger every day.
You and I have been quarreling for a whole week now. This is the most terrible test for me. I can’t come to terms with the fact that you are not next to me, my beloved. Let's forget our quarrel like the worst dream. After all, we were simply made for each other, and our quarrel is some kind of misunderstanding. It’s not for nothing that people say that darlings scold, they only amuse themselves. Don’t be offended by me anymore, let’s make peace, my only and most important person on earth. I am without you, like the sun without warmth, like a flower without aroma. I look forward to our meeting.
There are different situations in life, and sometimes because of a small misunderstanding, a huge quarrel can result. So you and I, my beloved, got caught up word after word, and in the end, you and I are in a quarrel. I feel very bad without you, forgive me for everything, because I myself was the initiator of our quarrel. This will never happen again, I promise you. Don't be angry with me anymore, and let's make peace. We are halves of one whole, we are simply made for each other. Let the rain wash away our quarrel, and not a trace will remain of it.
Love inspires us, makes us the happiest on earth. And separation depresses and makes us the most unhappy. So I feel like the most unfortunate girl in the world, because you and I are in a quarrel, my beloved. There is no more strength to endure our separation. Darling, please forgive me for offending you. Let's make peace and be together again, because we had such a good time together with you. Let's forget our quarrel like the worst dream. I love you and I want us to always be together. Forgive me, my love.
Fate gives each of us a soul mate, and how sad it is when you lose a loved one because of some nonsense. I just can’t find a place for myself because of our quarrel. Forgive me, my dear, I know that I have only myself to blame for everything. It's all my temper. I promise to change, believe me, this will never happen again. I offended you, and I feel guilty about everything. Let this quarrel be the first and last on the huge ship of our love. May he have only happy sailing.
Sometimes you can hurt a person to the core with a simple word, thoughtlessly inflict undeserved insults. I ask you for forgiveness, my beloved, for the fact that we are now in a quarrel. It’s all my own fault, and I’m now oppressed by remorse. Please forgive me for offending you, because all this was not out of malice, but just a surge of emotions. I understand that this is not an excuse, but still, don’t be offended by me anymore. Let's make peace and keep our love, because we both need it like air.
My dear, because of my bad character, you and I constantly have some kind of conflicts and disagreements. I want you to know that I am trying very hard to change for you, because you are very dear to me. I cannot imagine my existence without you and without our relationship, so I want to ask you for forgiveness once again. Please try to accept me and understand me, because it is not easy for me because of everything that is happening. I may seem so cold and unapproachable, but in fact, you yourself know that I worry no less than you. I want you to forgive me and try to forget about what happened, although I know that it is not so easy anymore. I promise to try to control myself and stop exploding over little things. Please forgive your unbalanced girlfriend, who simply loves you madly.
My beloved, I treated you very rudely. I am very ashamed of every word I said to you. You know I just lose control of myself when I'm in this state because I need support. I ask you to please forgive me! Know that I am incredibly remorseful, I am very ashamed, because I allowed myself a lot of things that you simply do not deserve. My dear, I have no excuse, I know that you are already tired of such conflicts, but rest assured that I will make every effort to ensure that such cases no longer happen in our lives. You know that I didn’t say all this out of malice, I just felt very bad at that moment. But even then I regretted every word, I just couldn’t stop myself. Let's forget about everything, let it be like a bad dream that happened and passed. I love you very much.
I feel simply terrible because I offended my dearest and closest person, who is ready to do anything for me. Dear, I know that you are now offended by me, and you have every right to be, because I behaved ugly towards you. But know that you did not deserve anything that I said. You know how much I love you and how much I value our relationship. I want to ask you for forgiveness, because I’m really ashamed, I shouldn’t have behaved like that. Let's just forget about it, although I know it's not easy, but I promise that nothing like that will happen again because I realized what a big mistake I made. My dear and most beloved, forgive me and don’t hold a grudge, please, because I love you more than life itself. I promise that I will be the best girl.
My dear, I want to ask you to listen to me. I am very ashamed of everything that happened yesterday. You were not to blame for anything, but I behaved very unworthily. You didn't deserve a single word I said to you yesterday. I sincerely want you to forgive me and forget about everything. I may be asking a lot, but I really want you to not hold a grudge against me. All this was a huge mistake that I, unfortunately, made. But I promise you that nothing like this will ever happen again, because I simply won’t allow it to happen. It’s very difficult for me to look into your eyes now because I’m very ashamed. I behaved in a way I should never have behaved. I beg you to forgive me. I promise that everything will only get better from now on.
Our relationship is the meaning of life for me, and I don’t know what came over me yesterday to make me behave this way. I have no excuse, but I ask you to listen to me. I made a huge mistake, which I will correct myself, and right now. My beloved, you know that I cannot imagine my life without you and without our relationship. I am very sad, I am very ashamed and scared, because I am afraid that you will not forgive me. It was a moment of weakness that I allowed out of my stupidity. Let's just erase this from our lives, because nothing like this will ever happen again. I will be the best for you, my beloved. I promise that I will correct myself and will do everything to make you forget about this terrible day. I love you very much! Forgive me, stupid.
There is no person in the world more beautiful and kind than you, my beloved. I just can’t find a place for myself, because we are now in a quarrel with you, there is no joy in life, everything seems gray and indifferent. I realized how much I love you, and therefore, I apologize for offending you. Forgive me, please, let this quarrel remain in the past, and we will forget about it forever, because our love is much stronger than all misunderstandings. You are my most desirable and only guy on earth, I love you, and I only want to be with you.
Words forgive your beloved guy: In verse | Short | Postcards
I want to offer my sincere apologies for everything that I did and said, for everything that upset you so much. I didn’t want everything to happen exactly like this, but what happened cannot be corrected, and only an apology can somehow smooth out the course of those events. Sorry, forgive me, please, that you had to experience all those annoying emotions and feelings that definitely raised a number of doubts about my person. Honestly, I didn’t do it on purpose, everything somehow happened on its own, and it’s stupid to make excuses, but I’ll try anyway. Probably the weather is to blame, or maybe some changes in the atmosphere... In general, I sincerely regret what happened and hope to receive your forgiveness. I understand that it’s stupid to blame the weather, but it’s a little easier than blaming yourself, although I blame myself no less. I hope for your good nature and that you will still be able to forgive me.
I'm sorry. I’m sorry that this happened, I can’t find a place for myself while you’re angry and harboring a grudge. I am sincerely sorry, believe me, I don’t want a wall of anger and misunderstanding to stand between us. I'm sorry, please, forgive me.
I want to apologize. I do not renounce my wrongness and ask for your forgiveness. I didn’t want it to turn out like this, and I especially didn’t want to offend you. I needed to take into account your suspiciousness and vulnerability. Apparently the weather had an effect, or maybe there was some kind of shift in the atmosphere, in general, forgive me. I will try to improve, and I will certainly stop offending you. Your silence is the best punishment for me, but I think it needs to be canceled. Let's do it like a child, make up on little fingers, and promise each other not to quarrel anymore. I love you, and you know it, so stop frowning, and let’s make peace, and then the world will regain its colors.
I feel terrible, please forgive me. I promise this won’t happen again, I’m sincerely sorry, believe me. Don’t be angry with me, let’s let this incident go and everything will be as before, I beg you.
I had enough time to think to understand my mistake and guilt. I sincerely apologize and hope that your heart will be able to melt the ice of a stupid insult. I promise that this will not happen again, because it is very important for me that everything will be fine with us again.
Forgive me, please, I feel bad that I learned this way and I am sincerely sorry. Please forgive me and do not harbor resentment in your heart. Let's make peace and everything will be as before. I promise, this won’t happen again, just forgive me, don’t turn away and don’t get angry, give me the warmth of your smile and everything will be fine.
From the bottom of my heart and soul I want to apologize for my hot temper! Even though my actions and words are not always positive, and my promises do not correspond to deeds, I apologize and ask you to forgive me! I promise to rethink everything, draw conclusions and not make these mistakes in the future.
Sometimes there are so few words to make amends. And sometimes a simple “sorry” touches the heart. I want to say exactly this “sorry” to you, and it really is from the heart and soul. Let everything bad between us be erased so that previous mistakes are not repeated. A person should be given a second chance, and here I am asking you for this chance. Please give me an attempt to correct what I have done.
I want to apologize for my inappropriate behavior. I am very sorry that this upset and upset you.
Excuse me please. I am sincerely sorry that this happened, but I also sincerely want to remove this offense from your heart. Please don't be angry with me and forgive me. Smile and let everything be fine again. With all my heart I wish you only happiness.
I don't know why
I hurt you so much.
My eyes are clouded with darkness,
And I didn’t see the light.
My tongue said the words itself
Offensive and stupid.
How darkness found
On my mind for a minute.
Forgive me, my beloved,
You yourself, as you can see, are terrified.
To the words "sorry, sorry, sorry"
Please listen!
Sorry, sorry, I'm having problems again,
I want everything, but I have no patience.
She said something about you
And I regret it hundreds of times.
I love you, I apologize
For all the words, absurd and bitter,
For everything that is said in our hearts,
Please, I love you, forgive me...
Darling, forgive me
Well, don't be upset
Let go of all grudges
Let them fly away in the wind.
I promise never
I won't do that again
Just know my love
Follows you everywhere!
Let's quarrel, but on the contrary,
I admit I was wrong
You are my beloved, dear,
And I love you very much.
Sorry, don't be offended by me,
Please accept my apology
I swear to you, I promise you, beloved,
I won’t do this again, you understand.
Sorry, stop sulking already,
For a good girl, my own,
It's time to forget all the long-standing grievances,
End our strange war!
Don't avoid me, I pray
We need to talk.
Listen to me silently
There is no need to interrupt.
I realize my guilt
I am completely, my dear.
And I ask for forgiveness
Forgive me, my love.
I know it's not easy
I understand you.
I'm sorry anyway
Love will forgive, I know!
It's my fault, of course
But everyone is a little sinful,
It was completely wrong
But it’s not out of malice!
My beloved, I really repent
And I apologize from my heart,
Read these lines
And let go of the grudge!
I'm sorry, my love, I'm sorry, I beg you.
What I told you, I said in the heat of the moment.
And now I’m punishing myself, I can’t find a place,
I miss you and your strong shoulder.
You know that I always light up like a candle,
But then I quickly melt away, leaving no trace.
So forgive me, my love, please hurry up
I'm waiting for you to visit today, come quickly!
Sometimes I get jealous.
But what can you do, dear!
You are so handsome,
I won't give you to anyone else!
I offended you
Brought experiences
Sorry for the rude words...
I'm ready for a lot for you.
I won't repeat my mistakes,
I will not allow any more suffering.
I appreciate you, faithful, dear,
My most favorite guy!
Sorry I was wrong
For insults, bad words,
I admit my mistake
And I won't repeat it again.
In the flow and bustle of days
You have become a part of my life,
I want to sincerely give love
And to be happy with you!
How many tears have I shed?
Through my own fault.
I let the guy down, -
The one who is dear to me!
Why is it so unreasonable
Did I get in?
I'm sitting for you, I'm roaring
Without a guy, without warmth!
How to ask for forgiveness
How to tell him
What I realized is that it’s windy
From now on I won't do that!
My bitter heart hurts,
Forgetting about shame and fear,
I'm running to tell the boy,
Yes, I'm wrong!
I hope everything gets better
I hope he understands
What I love and like
There is only Him in the World!
Sometimes such unpleasant situations occur that even the most loving and close people quarrel.
And after a quarrel they have no idea how to apologize to their wife, husband or other loved one.
Sometimes it’s even difficult for people to find warm and appropriate words to apologize. And they continue to feel guilty before the other person, not daring to take the first step towards reconciliation.
Sometimes a request for forgiveness and an apology comes from the person who is not to blame, because he wants to quickly improve the relationship and simply make peace. And this is also correct, because only a strong-willed and reasonable person can ask for an apology without guilt.
If you have done something wrong and want to ask for forgiveness through telephone messages, you definitely need to know about a few small but important rules.
Whether you are a man or a woman makes no difference. Just remember that before asking for forgiveness, you definitely need to calm down, cool down, realize your mistake and sincerely wish to improve the relationship.
After this, it is better to wait some more time (at least a couple of days) so that the offended person can calm down and calmly accept your desire to make peace. You can be sure that almost immediately after a serious quarrel, the woman or man you offended will not even listen to you.
Forgiveness through telephone messages
Before you start apologizing, every woman who has done something wrong, as well as every guilty man, should know about the basic small nuances in order to apologize correctly. They need to not only be remembered, but also adhered to:
- You don’t need to send SMS to your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife too often. One message for a maximum of 3-4 hours will be enough not to bother a person. If there is no response after sending several messages, then either wait a while or try another way to apologize.
- Do not duplicate text in subsequent messages.
- What to do if there is no answer? If the person you're apologizing to doesn't respond, then you should make a more serious apology than just sending an SMS.
- Select the SMS text based on what you yourself would like to read from your loved one as a request for forgiveness.
- Do not overuse emoticons and parentheses. After all, they still won’t be able to naturally, accurately and correctly convey the depth of your emotions to your loved one.
- Explain to your loved one that you sincerely apologize and ask for forgiveness. It is better not to use the phrase “I did this because...”. This applies to situations where the girl is right (or the guy is right).
- Don’t think that immediately after the first SMS a person is able to forgive you. After several messages, you can send the last one with the phrase “Are you ready to forgive me?” Usually such a phrase allows you to get an answer immediately.
What can you write in a message to your husband?
If a woman is to blame, then she can apologize to her husband using the following SMS:
- I really want to see you, look into your beloved and beautiful eyes, so that you can see that I am very sorry for our quarrel and sincerely wish to make peace with you and be as loved as before. I was wrong.
- Quarrels make people understand and decide how important and dear they are to each other. After this quarrel, I realized that you are the most precious treasure in life. And I apologize to you because I want us to be happy again.
- I want to apologize to you for the fact that tears flowed from your beautiful and beloved eyes. I want to take the first step towards reconciliation. Sorry...
Remember that a truly brave and intelligent woman can ask for an apology, even if the man is to blame. But in this case, you can only properly apologize for raising the tone in a conversation or accidentally throwing offensive phrases or expressions. But no more than that.
How to ask for forgiveness from your loved one?
Woman – a very sensitive and touchy creature who needs warm and gentle words.
Therefore, if a man is to blame, he can unusually apologize to his beloved using the following SMS:
- I understand that it is very difficult to forgive me. I can imagine how angry you are with me now. And you are absolutely right - I went too far. I apologize to you! I love you so much!
- Please forgive me! I can't even imagine the pain I caused you... I apologize to you.
- I really miss the happy sparkle in your eyes, which disappeared after our quarrel. I want you to illuminate me with your smile again, and your eyes to be the happiest. I'm sorry…
By the way, if you add to these messages a meeting with your loved one with flowers and a gift, the chances of a speedy reconciliation will greatly increase! For a woman, first of all, it is important to be sure that you love her and sincerely regret the quarrel.
Joking messages
Also, when a man is wrong or a woman is wrong, but the quarrel was not so serious, you can apologize in a joking manner. This will only allow you to thoroughly defuse the situation and receive forgiveness faster.
Don’t know how to apologize beautifully through phone messages so that your loved one will like it? Read further:
- The big toe and little toe on my right foot are still shaking convulsively from the overwhelming shame that I could do this to you today! Even in the mirror, instead of reflecting myself, I see a donkey with incredibly huge ears. I promise not to offend you like that again, I'm sorry...
- I miss you very much, because now I can’t take out the trash, clean up and vacuum the apartment on my own. I'm sorry…
- I can’t sleep, I can’t think, I can’t work, I can’t drink, I can’t eat, all my RAM is occupied by files only about you, and the rest of the programs are completely frozen. Forgive me, otherwise I will need a complete reboot.
It is not at all necessary to ask for an apology solely by sending an SMS to your husband or wife. Together you can, for example, jokingly bury the hatchet of war (your quarrel) in the yard.
Romantic Apology
You shouldn’t naively assume that men are absolutely not romantic. They love all sorts of romantic surprises and gifts no less than women.
Therefore, a woman can safely write an SMS with a text like “You are my prince, whom I have been waiting for so long and patiently, but now I can’t understand how I could offend you like that.” There can be an unlimited number of options for such SMS, which depends only on your imagination and the seriousness of your quarrel.
No one person can be to blame for a quarrel or scandal, so each of those who quarreled must necessarily analyze the situation, draw conclusions and apologize so that old grievances do not become the cause of long-term quarrels. The woman may also be wrong, or perhaps the man spoke too rudely during a quarrel?
Unspoken rules for asking for forgiveness
If you decide to apologize to your loved one via SMS, then try not to use phrases in the text like “I’m to blame, but...” Such phrases can cancel out all apologies, so forget about such expressions.
- To ensure that your apologies to your beloved guy or precious girl are sincere, write in your SMS the words that come from your heart. The recipient will definitely feel the warmth of the words that you put into the content of the SMS.
- It is not at all necessary to ask for an apology in poetry or prose, because standard templates or poems composed by another person will not correctly and accurately convey the sincerity that you will put into an SMS message when writing an apology yourself.
- It is not recommended to write too long SMS with apologies, because only a brief summary of your mistakes will help the person who is offended by you to see that you really repent. Instead of trying to focus attention on your partner’s shortcomings or other not-so-best aspects of your character. The text of your SMS should not only be short, but also open and sincere.
- When a man is at fault, he should not criticize a girl for throwing tantrums or shedding tears. Because almost all women and girls can cry and get nervous during quarrels. And that's okay.
Writing an SMS with an apology to your husband or beloved wife is the easiest way to make peace. We selected the text, put a sad smiley face and that’s it, sit and wait for an answer.
But when a person reads a message, he does not see the expression on your face or the sparkle in your eyes, which is a very important factor when apologizing. Make an appointment with your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, explain in a calm atmosphere why you did this and say that you really miss this person and regret the quarrel that happened.
If a person values you and loves you madly, then he will definitely apologize in return and will gladly move towards reconciliation. Author: Ekaterina Maiko
Unfortunately, in the relationship between a young man and a girl, not everything is always rosy, and sometimes disagreements occur between lovers. If you understand that you are to blame for the conflict that occurred, then the wisest thing would be to admit that you were wrong and apologize.
How to apologize correctly and when to do it
If you understand that not only your chosen one is to blame for the misunderstanding or quarrel that has occurred, then, of course, you need to apologize to him. Surely, like any other person, he feels offended and hopes for some kind of explanation or at least partial recognition of his guilt. It very rarely happens that in any quarrel the fault lies with only one person, and the ability to recognize this fact often greatly contributes to the harmonious development of relationships. If you do decide to apologize, then it is important to do it correctly so as not to provoke a new wave of dissatisfaction with each other.
Not “we” or “you”, but “I”
When you start a conversation with the person to whom you want to apologize, talk only about your feelings and your attitude towards the situation that happened. That is, there is no need to start with something like this: “You and I were wrong,” “You yourself know what provoked me,” “If we…”, “If you…” and so on. It is important to still place your part of the responsibility on yourself: “I did the wrong thing in this case,” “I should have warned you,” and the like.
Show that you are upset
Show your loved one that you are worried about the situation and would like to correct it. He must see that for you the first place is not your own ego, but harmonious relationships in your couple. Your upset should not look like an insult towards him personally - you are generally worried that not everything is going well in your relationship.
Suitable environment
Of course, it is important that your apologies are not made in passing, and not on the run or in front of witnesses. To achieve mutual understanding with a loved one, it is important to choose the right atmosphere. It is better to start such conversations in private, in a calm atmosphere. At the same time, the man should not be tired or in a hurry to get somewhere. It is also advisable to apologize in person, and not by correspondence or telephone. However, this depends on your personal preferences.
Is it worth apologizing to a man at all?
Of course, you can and should apologize to men when appropriate. That is, you shouldn’t do it with or without reason, but if you are really guilty, then your apologies will only put you in a better light. You will show yourself as a person who is able to admit his own mistakes and take responsibility for them. Also, the chosen one will understand that his feelings are important to you, you pay attention to various little things, and prefer to solve problems rather than wait for them to resolve themselves.
Some women consider apologizing to a man as a kind of humiliation, and this rather speaks of some kind of personal complex. Of course, how your lover reacts to your admission of guilt also matters. If he takes steps towards you and shows interest in resolving your differences, then this is one thing, but if, after you apologize, he begins to humiliate you or ridicule you in some way, then this is a completely different case. In the second situation, perhaps you should not hope that your relationship can have a truly happy future.
Apologize to your husband to improve family relationships
If grievances have been accumulating for years and I don’t feel guilty
You should analyze your relationship with your spouse and understand from what period problems appeared in your relationship. Also think about whether these conflicts can be resolved in any way, and if this is not possible, whether you are able to come to terms with a situation that does not suit you.
Talk frankly with your husband and try together to understand why you cannot achieve harmony in your family. Ask your husband what exactly he is dissatisfied with and what his vision is for solving this problem. In turn, convey to your spouse what you don’t like and ask how he sees the current situation developing. If your husband is dear to you, and you do not want to ruin your family, then be attentive to his words. It is possible that something in your behavior seriously upsets him or offends him, but at the same time you do not feel guilty. Explain to your chosen one why you are convinced that you are right and why you are sure that he has no reason to be offended. If your arguments seem unconvincing to your chosen one, and you understand that the current situation really hurts him, then it makes sense to apologize, at least with the following words: “Sorry that you have to experience such emotions, I really didn’t want it to upset you.”
Express your sympathy to your loved one. Don't dismiss his grievances as something stupid or unimportant. Let him know that you understand the reason for his worries, and it is not easy for you that there is a place for such emotions in your family.
Be responsible. Don't apologize as if you were doing a favor to your loved one. Let him see that you regret the offense caused to him, and at least partially take the blame upon yourself. The appropriate phrases are: “I regret that I did this,” “I understand that I offended you with my action,” and so on.
How to ask a guy for forgiveness
In your own words
If you seriously offended a young man, then you should feel responsible for this. In this case, it is completely inappropriate to apologize with someone else’s poems or by sending any sentimental songs on social networks. Most guys will consider such an apology extremely frivolous and, most likely, insincere. If you really want the young man to no longer be offended by you and the problem to be solved, then be sure to talk to him personally. Even if it’s a telephone conversation, you need to convey to him in your own words that you seriously repent and want everything to work out in your relationship.
If I messed up a lot and it’s my fault
In this case, it is also equally important to apologize in your own words so that the guy understands the sincerity of your regret about what happened. However, it is important to understand that if you really made a lot of mistakes and really upset your chosen one, then an apology alone may not seem enough to him. Most likely, his trust in you is now very much undermined, and he does not know what to do. To make it easier for him to forgive you, promise that you will certainly correct the situation and leave the reasons for his grievances in the past. If he didn't like flirting with other guys, then you should promise to stop doing it and keep your word. There can be a lot of situations, and if you are aware of your guilt and value your relationship, you should take responsibility for what happened and not allow this problem to reappear in your relationship.
Words of apology to your loved one in SMS
It is rare that a man will appreciate an apology via SMS - it is better to do this in person, however, of course, there are exceptions. If you know for sure that your beloved is now on edge and does not want to hear you at all, then an SMS may be quite appropriate; it may be something like this: “Forgive me for this action, I am very sorry about what happened. I want to talk to you as soon as you are ready. Love you". After some time (several hours or days), it depends on the character of the chosen one and the degree of your guilt, you can try to call the guy and bring him into conversation. If he rejects your call, wait another period and try to contact or meet him again. Perhaps he will remain adamant, and in this case you have no choice but to wait - he appreciated your persistence, and he will get in touch when he is ready.
Forgive me, beloved: for the lies, betrayals, for stupid behavior
How to apologize in order to forgive
If you want your chosen one to forgive you, be sincere with him and show that you regret what happened. First of all, it is important not only to apologize, but also to explain. Tell him why you decided to do this or that unseemly act. Also let him know that you yourself are disappointed with this behavior, and you will do everything possible to prevent this from happening in the future. If you want to cry during your speech, then allow yourself to do so, but note that your tears should not cause rejection - this means that you do not need to scream, sob angrily, and express yourself incoherently. Silent and almost imperceptible tears are quite enough - this will most likely give a more positive effect.
Don't demand or expect a person to forgive you immediately after you want it. Most likely, he will need time to realize and think about what happened, and also reflect on your apology. Tell your chosen one that you understand that he is offended and that it is not easy for him to forgive you. Note that you are ready to take a break and wait until he makes a decision. By doing this, you will demonstrate respect for your lover’s opinions and feelings.
How to let someone know they can trust you again
It would not be amiss to ask the young man how he sees the development of events. Ask him what you can do to make your relationship better so that he can forgive you. If his demands seem quite logical to you, and you value the relationship, then it is better to meet the guy halfway and do as he asks.
Show him that he no longer has a reason to be upset about the situation that quarreled you. If we are talking about betrayal, you need to completely exclude the possibility of contact with the person who has become the “third wheel” in your couple. Don't expect your chosen one to take your word for it that you won't have any more contact with that guy, even if you have to cross paths regularly. In this case, you will simply delay your separation, so initially think about how valuable your relationship is to you.
Let the young man know that you really appreciate the fact that he found the strength to forgive you. Tell him that he is very dear to you, and this situation has helped you realize how much you do not want to lose him. Show attention to your loved one and take care of him.
It is important that this situation truly remains in the past. If you don’t want your relationship to be unhappy, then it is important that the chosen one actually forgives you, and does not manipulate your feelings of guilt for many months. Convey to him that you are very upset by what happened, are ready to change and take care of your relationship, and also give him as much time as he wants to think about whether he can forgive you. If he constantly reproaches you for the situation that happened, then there can be no question of any full-fledged relationship. In this case, most likely, it would be more appropriate to separate for some period, and separately think about whether you can have a happy future together.
Don't take it for granted that your apology means your lover should trust you. If you notice that he is trying to somehow test you, do not express your irritation and do not incite conflict. Be tolerant of this behavior, and put yourself in his shoes - most likely, you would behave similarly. Such checks will probably soon fade away when the man is convinced that there is no reason to worry, and you can really be trusted again.
Beautiful apologies in poetry and prose
This type of apology is only appropriate if you yourself are engaged in writing prose or poetry - then you can quite easily tell your story in your work, express remorse and ask for forgiveness. If you decide to use the skill of another author, it is unlikely to be appreciated. The person you have offended is not waiting for someone else’s words and thoughts - it is your apology and your vision of the situation that is important to him. By sending a poem or an excerpt of a work with an apology found on the Internet, you will most likely only make it worse - few people will consider such regrets sincere. You should learn to take responsibility for mistakes made - apologizing in your own words (even in prose) in this case is much more appropriate.
